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Buddha Dharma

Magnify The Good of Others And Minimize The Bad of Others

30/1/2021

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We have all made the same types of mistakes. Even if someone treats us well most of the time, their occasional mistakes will make us forget all the kindness they have shown us.​
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​This is because we only focus on their shortcomings and mistakes. Therefore, the more we check this person, the more we feel that they are unreasonable and full of faults.
 
Other people can be like mirrors. If we stare at a mirror angrily, it will stare at us angrily. As a result, we start to dislike each other, and magnify each other’s shortcomings. When we think this way, we treat one another as though they are thorns in our flesh, hoping to rid ourselves of them as soon as possible.
 
Focus on the good of others, and tolerate their shortcomings.

Focus on the good of others. You will have more friends, and your social relationships will become more harmonious.

Focus on the good of others. Your family will be filled with happiness and laughter.

Focus on the good of others and be grateful. It’s far better than focusing on their shortcomings and flaws, and living a life full of resentment and pain!
 
Focusing on the bad of others is to punish yourself by their faults, which will only make you unhappy.

Focusing on the good of others and always being grateful will make you the happiest person in the world!​​

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