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心直可以, 口不能快   It's Ok To Say What You Think, But Not Ok To Speak Without Thinking

30/9/2020

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很多人说话时,特别心直口快,还老爱强调,“我这个人就是直肠子,有什么说什么,绝不遮遮掩掩”。​
Many people like to speak without thinking, and they say “I say what I think. I don’t hide.” ​​​

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你的孩子是菩萨   Your Child Is A Bodhisattva

30/9/2020

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曾有一个人生了一个智障的孩子,孩子的母亲非常痛苦,想请禅师予以开示。
Once there was a child born with intellectual disability. His mother was very distressed, and asked a Chan Master for instructions.

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我有了名,有了爱,有了钱,之后...   After I Have Fame, Love, And Money…

30/9/2020

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一位禅师在锄草,迎面走来三个人,问:“禅师,我们向佛学习了这么久,但并不觉得快乐,这是怎么回事呢?” ​​
Three people walked towards a master who’s weeding the garden and asked, “Master, we’ve been studying Buddhism for so long, but we are still not happy, why is that?” ​

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“看破,不说破"   "See-Through It, But Don’t Point It Out Directly"

30/9/2020

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所谓“笑人易,自省难”。人不容易看到自己的缺点,往往看到的都是别人的问题。

As the saying goes, “it is easier to laugh at others than to reflect on one’s own flaws.”It is more likely for people to see others’ faults that to realize their own problems.

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一只翅膀的鸟是飞不起来的   A Bird With One Wing Cannot Fly

30/9/2020

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常常有人问禅师,现在社会上戾气比较重,人与人相处时往往出言不逊,遇到这种情况如何去化解?
​People often ask the Chan Master that hostility in society is severe now; we always speak badly of each other. How to deal with this?

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口最容易犯错   Be Careful About Your Word

30/9/2020

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有的人,爱给别人取外号,特别严重的是给身体有残疾的人取外号,并以此为乐。

​Some people like to give other people nicknames, or even making fun of people with disabilities. 

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说服别人? No.   Never Ever Try to Persuade Others

30/9/2020

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如果跟一个戾气很重的人沟通,我们是忍着不说,还是顺着他或者跟他作对?​

What is considered the proper way to communicate with a hostile person? Should we keep silence in general, agree with him regardless of what he says, or simply fight him when he is being unreasonable?

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​刀刀见血   Every Cut Leaves A Bleeding Wound

30/9/2020

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​刀,会伤害人,会受伤,会出血。
说话,也会伤害到人。
​A blade can cut people and cause bleeding wounds, so can our speech.

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​每三天换一棵树   Changing a Tree Every Three Days

30/9/2020

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常在一棵树下打坐,而后就会慢慢和这棵树产生情感,认为“这棵树是我的,这棵树的阴凉也是我的。”痛苦也便产生了。
Meditating under one particular tree often may give you an emotional connection with the tree, thinking the tree is yours, that even the shape is yours. And then, pain comes along.

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你欢喜所以我也欢喜   You Rejoice; I Also Rejoice

30/9/2020

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见到别人的生活、事业蒸蒸日上,有些人心里多少都会有点不舒服,可能还会酸溜溜地说风凉话,甚至背后说坏话。
Some people feel uncomfortable on different levels when seeing others’ lives and careers flourish. They often may make sarcastic remarks, or even speak badly behind their backs. ​

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